The Narcissistic Abuse Study Group

Listowner: Dr. Sam Vaknin

Narcissism, Pathological Narcissism, The Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), the Narcissist,

and Relationships with Abusive Narcissists and Psychopaths


If you had a Narcissistic Parent
If you were married to a Narcissist
If you are afraid that your children will turn out the same
If you want to understand the arbitrary
If you want to cope with this pernicious condition
If you are a Narcissist - or suspect that you are

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The Narcissist is an actor in a monodrama, yet forced to remain behind the scenes. The scenes take center stage, instead. The Narcissist does not cater at all to his own needs. Contrary to his reputation, the Narcissist does not "love" himself in any true sense of this loaded word.

He (or she) feeds off other people, who hurl back at him an image that he projects to them. This is their sole function in his world: to reflect, to admire, to applaud, to detest - in a word, to assure him that he exists.

Otherwise, they have no right to tax his time, energy, or emotions - so he feels.

My book, "Malignant Self Love Narcissism Revisited", was written under extreme conditions of duress. It was composed in jail as I was trying to understand what had hit me. My nine years old marriage dissolved, my finances were in a shocking condition, my family estranged, my reputation ruined, my personal freedom severely curtailed. Slowly, the realization that it was all my fault, that I was sick and needed help penetrated the decades old defences that I erected around me. This book is the documentation of a road of self-discovery. It was a painful process, which led to nowhere. I am no different – and no healthier – today than I was when I wrote this book. My disorder is here to stay, the prognosis is poor and alarming.

I wanted to talk to others, to compare notes, to learn and to support by disseminating knowledge. This is why I established this group. Its archives are by far the greatest resource available on the Net regarding pathological narcissism, the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), and relationships with abusive narcissists. Every day, between 3-5 articles are posted to its members and contributions from list members are welcome.


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Chats and Interviews

HealthyPlace CHAT with Sam Vaknin

Relationships with Abusive Narcissists CHAT

Narcissists in the Workplace Chat Transcript

WebMD Chat with Sam Vaknin

Mental Health Today Chat

Dialogs about Narcissism and Abuse

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Case Studies

Case Study #1 - Adolescent Narcissist

Case Study #2 - A Dream Interpreted

Case Study #3 - Persecutory Anxiety

Case Study #4 - The NPD Catechism

Case Study #5 - The Pathological Charmer

Ask Sam Vaknin on the Psychopath Support Group

Case Studies in the Narcissistic Personality Disorder List Part I - Click HERE!

Case Studies in the Narcissistic Personality Disorder List Part II - Click HERE!

Ask Sam on the Narcissistic Personality Disorder Support Group - Part I

Ask Sam on the Narcissistic Personality Disorder Support Group - Part II

Ask Sam on the Narcissistic Personality Disorder Support Group - Part III

Ask Sam on the Narcissistic Personality Disorder Support Group - Part IV

Personality Disorders

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Emotional and Verbal Abuse on Suite101

Spousal Abuse and Domestic Violence on Suite101


Poetry of Healing and Abuse: My Poems

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FREE - Read New Short Fiction

Philosophical Musings

World in Conflict and Transition

Internet: A Medium or a Message?

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